이혼 갈등 원인에 대한 상담사례분석 : 루단스의 갈등이론을 중심으로

In order to defend the world's second-largest divorce rate in Korea, the cause of divorce has been studied in the fields of law and sociology. In the field of law, the causes of divorce are divided into spouse’s misconduct, spouse’s malicious organism, unfair treatment of spouse or direct lineage, and other serious problems that are difficult to maintain. However, since the actual cause of divorce is often emotional, it is necessary to deal with the cause of divorce in a counseling approach. Even though the research on the cause of divorce continues, it does not affect the reduction of the divorce rate because it is difficult to eliminate and cope with the cause of divorce by classifying it according to legal and social figures. As a result of analyzing the counseling journals of the clients who came to mediate the divorce conflict, the most frequently used words were [I] and [Seounham], and the words were interrelated mainly with [Seounham], [I], [Family], [Dialogue], [Each other], and [Child]. According to Rudans' conflict theory, Seounham is defined as a conflict caused by the frustration of the goal, but in the frustration conflict, all of aggression, abandonment, and obsession except compromise showed Seounham. Even in the case of goal conflict where conflict occurs due to conflict of the same goals, depression was strong only in the case of avoidance-avoidance, and in the case of approach-approach and approach-avoidance, both were found to be Seounham. Role conflict was a problem of Seounham except for the fact that unfairness was mainly appealed in the conflict between mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and East and West. This study provides an important basis for psychological counseling as well as legal intervention in the divorce mediation process.